The best parenting arrangement after will depend on the individual needs of the children. Ultimately, the best parenting arrangement will be determined by the individual needs of the children and the ability of the parents to cooperate.

It is important to ensure that both parents remain involved in the children’s lives and that the children maintain a connection with both parents. This should be accomplished through an agreement with the help of a professional trained to look at all of the factors and provide support to parents as it is a challenging time.

It is also important to consider whether or not the parents can communicate effectively and work together to make decisions about the children’s upbringing. It is also important to make sure that the children’s emotional and physical needs are being met.

Provide your children with resources, to help them cope with the transition. YOU are the most valuable resource to your children. Children are very aware of how their parents are coping and feeling. If you are struggling, your child will struggle as well. That is why it is so important for parents to seek support. It takes a strong person to ask for help and your children will learn from the actions you take. We all need support from time to time and this can make all the difference for your life and the lives of your children.

Make sure you remain involved in your children’s lives and maintain open communication. Spend quality time with your children and remind them that they are loved.

Create a parenting plan with your ex-spouse that puts the children first. Try to minimize conflict between you and your ex-spouse around your children. Work with your children to create a new family structure.

What should you say to your children if your Ex partner won’t coparent and is trying to alienate them from you?

“It is normal to feel hurt or confused when your parents don't get along. It is important to remember that it is not your fault and that you are loved by both of us. It is not okay for anyone to try and make you choose between us. We both love you very much and will always be here for you.”

What to do if the other parent is refusing to coparent or communicate with you?

the first step is to attempt to resolve the issue amicably. Try to reach out to them in a respectful manner and see if you can resolve the issue together. If they do not respond or are unwilling to cooperate, then you may need to take legal action. If the other parent has alienated the children from you, it is important to document any attempts you make to contact them or the children. This may include emails, letters, phone calls, or other forms of communication. You should also keep records of any negative statements or actions made by the other parent that could be considered alienation. This evidence can be used to support your claim if you decide to pursue a court order.

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Divorce is definitely, the biggest challenge one can face. It is a difficult process for all parties involved and the impacts are far reaching. It involves a great deal of emotional upheaval, financial strain, and a complex legal process. A divorce can be especially difficult when emotions are running high and there are unresolved issues between the two parties. These issues can include disagreements over children, support, division of assets, and debts.

During a divorce, the assets and liabilities of the couple will be divided between them. This typically involves liquidating or dividing any joint assets, such as bank accounts, investments, real estate, vehicles, and other property.

Both parties must also agree on the division of any debts or liabilities, including credit card debt, mortgages, and any loans. In some cases, one party may be required to pay spousal or child support to the other for a certain period of time.

1. Understand your options: Before filing for divorce, it is important to understand the all of the possibilities that are available to you. It is important that parents can come to an agreement as to where the children will live, how decisions will be made for the children, spousal support, and division of marital property. We encourage you to book a free, no obligation, consultation prior to initiating any process. The decisions you make will have a massive impact on the outcome so how you proceed is vitally important. You can't possibly understand something that you have never been through before. Invest the time now so you can ensure a solid future for you and your children.

2. Choose the Filing Status: The filing status will determine the type of documentation and paperwork needed to file for a joint divorce(parties file together making the process easier), a party files on their own(this means they have to “serve” the other party the documents, making it more difficult). Many people feel that they are left without choices and can easily be led astray due to misinformation. This situation needs to be handled with the care it deserves. The best advise we can give at this time is "if you are going to end things, end things well". Getting support will make all the difference as their are many challenges to navigate and it is an overwhelming time.

3. Collect Required Documentation: Gather all necessary documents such as birth certificates, marriage certificates, and financial documents. Many people can find this task overwhelming and at this point in time, think that if they hire a lawyer, that they will simply look after this. This is simply not true and can carry huge financial consequences. We can help you understand your responsibilities and support you so that you save time, money and your valuable resources. We can help you avoid all of the pitfalls that many individuals fall into. Our mission is to empower and educate.

4. Create a Separation Agreement: A separation agreement is a document that outlines the details of the divorce. This includes important information such as decision making for the children, parenting time, spousal support, and division of assets. Having a comprehensive separation agreement can relieve much of the conflict and anxiety around the separation. Once decisions are made, life gets easier and you can put your energy into more important things...like building your new life.

5. File the Divorce: Once the divorce paperwork is prepared, the couple must file the documents with the court. Couples must be separated for one full year before they are allowed to file for divorce.

6. Attend Court Hearings: If couples are unable to agree, the couple may be required to attend court hearings to finalize the divorce. This can be a very lengthy, time consuming and stressful process.

7. Obtain a Final Divorce Certificate: Once the court approves the divorce, the couple will receive a final divorce certificate.

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Prior to speaking with your partner regarding divorce we recommend speaking to one of our professionals by booking a free, no obligation, consultation. The decisions you make today will have a huge impact on your future and how you proceed can many times, predict the outcome. Treat this time with the patience and care it deserves. Doing so will pay massive dividens for you and your future.

Below we have listed some things that can help immensely.

** Communicate your needs clearly and calmly. Let your spouse know what it is you need from them and why.

** Listen to your spouse’s needs and be open to compromise. Try to find a middle ground that both of you can agree on.

** Avoid attacking or blaming. Instead, try to focus on how you can work together to solve the problem. Having a professional step in can greatly improve the situation and help you move forward in the best possible way. This is the best investment you can make in your future as things do not change on their own. Action is needed.

** Ask questions. Asking questions can help you gain a better understanding of your spouse’s perspective and can help you both come to a resolution. It can be difficult to know what questions to ask and couples have different communication styles. A professional can help you resolve these issue so that you can find resolution and achieve the happiness you deserve.

** Take care of yourself by engaging in activities that bring you joy and peace and focus on your own well being so you can make decisions from a healthy place.

** When going through a divorce, it is important to talk to a trusted friend or family member that will listen without judgement. This can be a great source of comfort and support through the difficult times. Talking to someone who has gone through a divorce can provide invaluable advice and perspective.

Additionally, talking to someone who is close to you can help you to process your emotions, decisions, and potential outcomes. It can also help to provide a sense of connection, which can be especially important during a time of major life changes.

** Be careful sharing information. It is important to also be aware of the large amount of misinformation that is out there. Be mindful of who you share information with. During this time you need good advise and that can be hard to find.

If you don't love your spouse anymore, it's important to take a step back and honestly evaluate your feelings. Consider if there are any issues that need to be addressed in your relationship, and if so, have an honest discussion with your spouse about them. We urge you to get support as how you approach this situation matters. Many of us have not learned how to communicate in a way that we are heard by the other person.

Coaching can help you both work through any issues and learn healthy communication strategies. It can provide an impartial and safe space for couples to discuss their issues and feelings. It can provide guidance and support on how to work through difficult times, improve communication, and resolve differences. It can also provide an opportunity for couples to explore their needs and values, and develop better understanding and appreciation for each other.

Coaching can help couples to identify sources of stress and how to manage them, as well as how to develop healthier and more effective ways of interacting. Ultimately, coaching can help couples to make better decisions and to build a more loving and supportive relationship.

This can also be of a great benefit if you decide to divorce. It will make this transition go much more smoothly and alieviate any feelings of failure, guilt or shame knowing that you tried your best.

Get Professional Help If talking to your spouse doesn’t help, you could consider seeking professional help. A marriage counselor can help you and your partner identify problems in your relationship and find ways to improve it.

**Book your free, no obligation call today and we will be happy to help you come through this time stronger, happier and set up for a brighter future for you and your children.**

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